Well hopefully I said something of value to folks the other day on the radio with Michelle Vandepas of Your Divine Purpose Unleashed on Live your Purpose Radio/Blog Talk Radio on the 15th. I was quite nervous, but Michelle was a great host and I think I was able to convey my simple message. Please take a listen by clicking on my show and let me know what you think! I’ll be eager to see all my reviews! Thanks for all your support!
Back to School in Style
It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Now those lyrics may normally be heard on the radio around Christmas but for millions of parents across the nation and around the world, these words convey an entirely different meaning…
…school is back in session!
And while their parents may be thrilled at the prospect of shipping off their kids for another fun-filled year, the students more than likely are not terribly enthused. The task of finding classrooms, memorizing locker combinations, and piling on hour of after hour of homework somehow overshadows the excitement at returning to the old classrooms.
The only thing kids probably enjoy in preparation for the new school year is the annual ritual of school shopping.
Now when I was a kid, it was mandatory to visit the ubiquitous Buster Brown shoe store to be outfitted with decent footgear for the first day of school. This part, for me, actually wasn’t too bad. I enjoyed all the fussing of the lady helping me try on my new lace-ups, and certainly secretly thrilled in the smell of the leather. Buying a pretty new dress also was something to look forward to as my mother and I visited our local department store. And so it was that on the first day back to school, I’d be resplendent in my red gingham dress, matching red socks, and spiffy new footwear shining in the sun.
Fast forward a few years and now as the mother of an emerging fashion-conscious tween boy, I find myself in the bittersweet position of rejoicing in his starting back at school and feeling the sting as I part with more money than I’d like to outfit him for his new middle school experience.
As I mention in my book, Second Hand Roses: Lessons From the Junktiquing Road, this whole buying-retail thing now, with my years of thrifting experience clouding my judgment on what constitutes a normal price for things, I take great umbrage to the thought of parting with more than $10 for a pair of jeans! A visit to Sears a while back found me on more than one occasion laughing out loud at the prices displayed on the racks.
“Avoiding the sidelong glances of the saleslady stacking T-shirts nearby, I muffled an indignant snort or two as I scoffed at the temerity of the store to price a simple hoodie at well over $50. Are they serious, I thought to myself, looking over the cheap plastic zipper, destined for breakage within a month or two. The thing looked no more substantial than an overgrown sweatshirt; the only seeming justification of such an outrageous price being the tiny label stitched in the neckline. Did they expect the wearer to turn the jacket inside-out, so as to impress anyone with sharp enough eyes to see the tag?”
Nevertheless, my son has his heart set these days on certain brands and while I could afford that $50 hoodie, quite frankly it’s more often than not that I have returned from a thrifting run at my local Goodwill, bag full of clothes, (some of those very name brands he so covets), paying LESS than $50 for at least five outfits. And they’re outfits he can wear with pride, labels and all, and no one is the wiser as to how much actually got spent on them. He’s cool for one-quarter the price, at least!
Seems I am not the only one out there checking out thrift stores these days for back-to-school fashions. Check out this link. Fox News apparently has latched onto the idea as well.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfsQOOPcC0Y
Now that’s what I call stimulating the economy!
Let’s Get Cooking!
One of the many benefits of shopping at places like Goodwill, besides the obvious price-point issue, is that many times you can update your kitchen and literally feed your inner Rachael Ray just by paying close attention to the cookware aisle.
Check out this pan. It’s an All Clad 12-inch grill. Borrowing directly from the Amazon.com website, the description says it’s a “high-performance grill designed with a heavy gauge, hard-coat anodized aluminum exterior for efficient, balanced heat conductivity and long wear. Quantum-coated nonstick interior. Solid-cast stainless steel handle. Carries the All-Clad limited lifetime warranty.”
Sounds great doesn’t it? If you only had the $49.99 in your pocket, plus shipping! And that’s a bargain, compared to other sites, which list it as high as $89 and above!
Now most of us these days can’t shell out this kind of cash for such a fine piece of cookware. But as this lucky Goodwill shopper found out, with a little perseverence, occasionally these gems can be unearthed beneath the stacks of plasticware and mismatched cutlery. What did I pay for this fabulous All Clad grill?
Three dollars. Yes, you head that right. For a whopping three George Washingtons, less than a footlong sub at a famous restaurant, I whipped that bad boy into my cart and home faster than you could say panini sandwich! And was this beautiful grill in a sad state of affairs to find itself wedged in between an old turkey roasting pan and a juice extractor? Nope! Probably because it was an All Clad, it was sturdier than its less-expensive counterparts and able to withstand the trip to Goodwill most likely jumbled in a large donation box.
See, thrifting is not what you think. With a little patience, knowlege of product value, and luck, sometimes the most amazing things can come into your life that up to now may have been cost prohibitive. Sure, we’d all like to be able to trek to the local gourmet cooking store and walk out with thousands of dollars’ worth of merchandise, but as I see it, that trend is morphing into one of a simpler outlook. Now even those on the most modest budgets sometimes can come away with items of superior value, intrinsic or otherwise.
So next time when you’re in the market for a new frying pan, swing by your local Goodwill. You just might be amazed at what you find.
Bon appetit!
Sharing the Wealth
One man's trash...
I just read an amazing story about a postal worker from New Jersey who took the time to visit his local thrift store and procure items for his relations back in Ghana. He was just honored by the National Association of Letter Carriers for this wonderful deed….
What a beautiful, yet so simple thing to do. His time, money, and efforts may have won him some acclaim here but I’d hazard a guess that he’s even more of a hero back in his native country. See, this gentleman took a look around him, realized that we as a country are truly rich by most of the world’s criteria, and decided to share the wealth.
Now that phrase, “share the wealth,” was bandied about for a while back during the presidential campaign last year. But for all the outcry and debate, truly what is wrong with helping our fellow man; to give from those of us who have so much to those for whom clean water is a luxury rather than a common happenstance? Isn’t what we all learn as children? Sharing, cooperating, caring, having empathy, compassion, and love are all values instilled early and hopefully traits we carry over into our adulthood. Whether it’s lending a neighbor a hand with felling a dead tree, bringing a casserole to a new widower, or even shipping a box of clothes to distant lands, it’s this spirit of altruism that connects and binds us all as a society, a race, a community, an amalgam of all things human.
In these hard times, we’ve all tightened our belts, cut back on luxuries like vacations (preferring the new-cool “staycation”), and some of us have even learned from our grandparents to grow a Victory garden to supply us with food from our own toils. Giving to others may seem impossible right now, as we are faced with dental bills, threats of layoffs, rising costs of living, and worries about our own circle of friends and family. All the charities are taking a hit these days as donations are down.
But taking a cue from Mr. Anim-Sackey, the time to consider the welfare of others even as we pray for our own salvation may be, curiously, the best time to share the wealth. It doesn’t have to be in the form of a huge monetary donation. We usually always have a half-hour a month to set aside in the service of others; be that serving food to the homeless, tutoring a struggling student, or collecting clothes to clad our far-flung relatives.
Anne Frank may have put it best with her simple reminder, “No one has ever become poor by giving.”
Sharing the wealth may ultimately reap riches on us all.
To learn more about the other inspirational folks delivering our mail:
www.nalc.org
Tags: charity, economy, Goodwill, money, Salvation Army, shopping, society, wealth